How to give lingerie?

In many ways, giving lingerie is an excellent idea to surprise and please. It’s the kind of gift that stands out; because it is already very personal, but it is usually associated with a moment that will probably become a memorable memory.

Don't deprive yourself of such an opportunity to do things elegantly, take advantage of our advice to guide you in your choice.

• 1 What lingerie to give to a woman?
• 1.1 Define your level of intimacy
• 1.2 Find your size
• 1.3 What is her experience with lingerie?
• 1.4 She wears lingerie occasionally
• 1.5 Madame is used to wearing sexy lingerie
• 2 Give lingerie for Christmas
• 2.1 Gift for a woman in her 40s
• 2.2 Gift for a woman in her twenties
• 2.3 Gift for a woman in her thirties
• 3 How to choose the right size?

What lingerie to give to a woman?

What lovely attention you have there; offering lingerie to your lady is not an easy task. But luckily, you've come to the right place.

This is a great idea for several reasons; you will prove your desire , the desire to spend special moments with her by offering her a personal and intimate gift. As such, it is important to know the person to whom you are giving these underwear.

This will allow you to send a message in language that the person receiving it understands. You are ready ?

Define your level of intimacy

The lingerie is worn close to the body and is intended to be very intimate. It is obvious that this gift cannot be given to just anyone.

Of course, if your desire is to delight your partner, this detail may seem negligible. However, taking the time to ask yourself the question of the "atmosphere" between this person will help you avoid any disappointment when the time comes.

To make your lingerie selection easier, because there are different intensities, imagine lingerie as a message . It can be contained in a short, concise sentence.

For example, if you have been in a teasing relationship for a few days, imagining a red outfit (like an ensemble or a basque, seems appropriate. Or, a black ensemble with a burlesque touch that inspires a refined charm whose message would be more subliminal .

This is about defining, according to your own judgment, what you want to convey to this woman by offering her lingerie.

Find your size

We start by making sure what size we are going to order.

There's no point looking at the items if you don't know its size and you won't be able to improvise on this point.

To do this, the undercover spy technique is necessary. During her shower or a moment of absence, find the size of the top she is wearing (bra) and the bottom (panties or thong). Only do this if you have the right to do so.

Once you have found the sizes, keep them aside so you can find the size that will suit you according to the model you prefer.

With the bra size (for example 90C) and the bottom size (say M), you will be able to choose without fail all the models of sexy lingerie at Luxury Alley.

We offer a size guide classified by brand, then by model. We are at your disposal if you are unsure, we will be able to help you choose the ideal size.

Shall we move on?

What is her experience with lingerie?

Sexy lingerie and underwear are very different, if not distinct.

Before choosing the complete set with suspenders and frills, ask yourself the question of experience.

Has she ever worn a corset, a sexy outfit with stockings, an alluring nightie?

This somewhat technical question is, however , necessary to avoid making any mistakes regarding the type of underwear you are going to fall for.

Although this is your gift for her, you would still like this lingerie to be worn; and therefore make sure you choose a model in which she can feel comfortable .

Also, if you know what parts of her body she likes/dislikes, make it that. A woman who loves her breasts will appreciate enhancing them, if she doesn't like her buttocks avoid the thong.

The message is simple, highlight their favorite assets while respecting their personality.

She wears lingerie occasionally

For a woman who wears very little or no sexy lingerie, it is quite easy to choose contrary to what you might think. In fact, we are going to move towards a set of lingerie or a sexy nightie.

You need to know what she likes about herself, and what she hates. If she loves her breasts, a set with a beautiful bra is perfect. If she is self-conscious about her stomach or her size, opt for a fairly classic nightie or basque which will hide her self-consciousness.

Paying attention to these details will only make your gesture more delicious . Women are sensitive to the details that we wear about them, so much so that an error in color or a detail will go unnoticed.

Keep in mind that the goal is for her to wear this lingerie with pleasure, choose this lingerie for her above all.

Madame is used to wearing sexy lingerie

So now is the time to innovate towards more exotic models.

Here again, think first of all about what she likes or doesn't like about herself, so that she doesn't feel self-conscious.

A woman who doesn't like her breasts won't wear an open bra.

Prove to him that you care by choosing a new category of lingerie that you love and which will highlight his natural charm. It is not necessary to go the exact opposite of your habits, but let's say that a small change in the cut, or the material, could be appreciated.

Give lingerie for Christmas

Like every year, the question that comes to mind in October: “what am I going to give him for the end of year holidays?”

It's not always easy to innovate, especially when it's been years (and therefore so many Christmases) spent near each other.

However, every year we offer new selections with different intensities to make your Christmas shopping easier. You will find refined ideas, or others more daring in order to offer you a controlled choice so as not to get lost among the thousands of models that we have in store.

Which model to choose? There are so many... Adornments, basques, nighties.

Anything to lose your mind!

Ideally, you should proceed in stages.

Thinking about her

All the magic of a present lies in the fact that you thought of this person to give it to them.

It will therefore seem normal to do so according to her, her body, her morphology - you will find below our advice for choosing sizes - It is important to keep in mind that a young woman of 20 and 'a 50 year old woman will not have the same tastes, and their body is very different.

This doesn't mean that a more mature woman can't be sexy, on the contrary. However, she will have different needs and desires .

We know that the event, age and morphology are important to avoid making a mistake. Here are some concrete examples to illustrate these principles with you.

Gift for a woman in her 40s

A Christmas gift for a 40 year old woman of average build who wears lingerie occasionally:

a woman of this age, who has probably had children, may have a small belly that she does not particularly want to show off. As in this example it is about finding a Christmas gift, a basque would be the ideal choice.

Indeed, this type of lingerie is elegant, provides support for the chest and generally offers sheathing of the waist and stomach without transparency (depending on the models).

You can add a pair of stockings to be dressed from head to toe for a successful highlight.

The choice of colors is quite varied although black is the most common. Red has a sexier tone and white more innocent.

Make the cut and color based on your personality.

Gift for a woman in her twenties

Giving a Christmas present to a young woman in her twenties who is quite thin and has small breasts:

we are in the first steps of seduction. The possibilities are numerous, because we can start with something new to create new experiences. However, his personality will have to be taken into account.

Choosing a daring model that does not match your character is prohibited. If you see her as a daring woman, who likes seduction with a touch of provocation, you can imagine outfits in vinyl materials or sexy transparent lingerie.

Think about an outfit that highlights her strong point , hides her complexes and in a color that you both would like (who said women are complex beings?)

Gift for a woman in her 30s

Now let's take the example of a 30-year-old woman who has generous curves to whom we would like to give lingerie for Christmas.

It's a period of life where we become women more than ever. We want to seduce and we embrace our shapes far from fashion clichés.

We are here in a situation where everything has to be taken into account. Is she comfortable with her body? What part does she not like about herself? Does she like to wear sexy outfits, with cleavage or even sexy lingerie?

Its silhouette and character are important in your choice. For example ; a generous chest must be maintained by underwire.

Don't force her to step out of her comfort zone with things that are too outside of her instincts.

Be sure to choose the right size and if in doubt, always take the next size up.

How to choose the right size ?

The choice of size is crucial when it comes to offering lingerie to a woman.

At Luxury Alley, exchanges are supported and free, but the best thing is obviously to aim right from the start.

For sexy lingerie, it's easy. You simply have to choose from sizes like S or XL; Sometimes hybrids like SM or LXL are offered, they will respectively go to sizes S and M as well as L and XL for example.

To find out your size , take a look through your incognito wardrobe to find your usual size.

Choose a pair of pants, skirts, or dresses she's wearing right now and find the label. Raise the waistline and keep it in mind. On all our product sheets, you will have the correspondences of the style S=36 L=40 etc...

For fine lingerie, such as bras and certain basques or nighties, this will be in cup size. 90B or 95C, etc... The only option in this case is to find one of their bras (also recent) to raise the size.

Please note: European and French sizes are different. If 75B (EU) is written, it is 90B (FR) with us. Look closely at the label to see the words written (FR or EUR or even US).

When in doubt, the top size is the best choice, as lingerie is very often stretchy. You can check our size conversion chart to help you.

Customer service is also available to help you make the right choice! Don't go without good advice...