This question often comes up among women who have curves, and who want to feel attractive and feminine. As if something had stopped or changed. This especially happens after giving birth, but it can be for other reasons.
Here you will find all of our advice for curvy women so that you can once again feel desirable, confident and as feminine as you would like to be.
- 1 Be honest with yourself
- 2 Finding the ideal sexy lingerie for my body shape
- 2.1 The cuts of women’s underwear
- 2.2 Promote your assets
- 2.3 Lingerie and its personality
- 3 The lingerie we offer to curvy women
Be honest with yourself
The first mistake is listening to yourself. When you are in a mental state where you don't feel attractive, you will find every good reason not to think of yourself as such. And it's a real vicious circle that can follow you as long as you don't address it.
Understand that we are the worst judge there is when it comes to ourselves.
You do yourself no favors and even find “flaws” that only you see.
If you are here reading this, you are probably looking for a solution . There is, but it has to start with being enlightened when you talk about yourself.
You probably have desire, the desire to please, to win back your partner (or to charm a new one). Never mind, this formality will soon be nothing more than a distant memory.
Finding the ideal sexy lingerie for my body shape
At Luxury Alley, we offer a wide range of lingerie in different sizes and customers to match.
From our point of view, the curvy woman attribute is vague. When do we give ourselves this label? Size L? or 3XL?
This is probably just an opinion, since when you make an XS, you can say that a size M is larger. But for a woman who is an E cup size, the C cup is a small bust. (what would Vanessa Paradis say about this?)
It's just perception. And although fashion diktats are evolving towards more acceptance... what about #bodypositive - We are still quite influenced by thinness as a state of beauty.
The cuts of women's underwear
The goal of the game is to find sexy lingerie that matches your body and your tastes.
Take a few minutes to check out our plus size lingerie category and come back to continue reading. You will see models with very different appearances, and if you are wondering; yes, we sell them and our customers are generally delighted with their purchase.
We are not here to praise the merits of the brands we offer here, but to show you that lingerie is no longer limited by size (at least at Luxury Alley).
Gone are the days when models for strong women were expensive, ugly and uncomfortable. Now they are generally the same models for all sizes.
Promote your strengths
You obviously know your strengths, the strong points of which you are most proud. There is definitely lingerie that enhances this charming asset.
The body parts that are generally highlighted by curvy women are the hips, chest and buttocks. This is obviously not exhaustive, but it gives an idea.
Please note that the chest should always be kept above a D cup , especially if it is natural. Sagging breasts are completely natural and are not inevitable; Many of our clients are looking to enhance the appearance of their breasts with lingerie. You could try a corset or a nightie that displays a magnificent neckline, while ensuring support with underwires and structured cups.
The shape of the outfit you choose has a direct impact on the figure and your appearance. Since there are so many varieties in this area, try to define which format would best suit your lines. This will already give you a good head start on your seduction goal.
Lingerie and its personality
Many curvy women dare to wear lingerie, but many also avoid it by judging themselves too harshly.
You are feminine, and want to please, to be attractive. You have the right to want to show off.
Most of the time we create mental patterns that direct our ideas; but very often the basis is irrational. It doesn’t matter what shape your body is, how tall you are, or any other “excuse” you can come up with! You have the right to wear lingerie.
By following our tips above, you will have a first idea of how you can put yourself in the spotlight.
Focus on your best assets, and don't hesitate to enhance them with lingerie adapted to these assets.
If you want to hide a few areas, limit the transparency or openings on them. Once you get started, you'll see that on the other side is more confidence and self-assurance!
The lingerie we offer to curvy women
If morals are changing, this has not always been the case.
At Luxury Alley, we have always had a zero discrimination policy. Whether it is linked to gender, skin color, origin or size.
Obviously, we offer lingerie manufactured by our partner brands and do not manufacture our models. We are also dependent on the products of these brands.
This does not prevent us from being one of the rare lingerie stores to offer so many sizes.
You will find large cup bras that go up to E cups, but also G cups and H cups for some.
Sexy lingerie that is magnificent and enhancing, up to sizes like 6XL and above
Naughty underwear to indulge your wildest desires, with open lingerie, or materials with a more pronounced character like black vinyl and second-skin textures.
You will also find that the price is identical , in 95% of cases, between the thinner and wider sizes. In fact, we absorb the price difference that brands charge (for the most part) so that every woman who wishes can feel attractive by buying sexy lingerie adapted to her desires, her body and her budget.
You no longer have excuses ;)
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